I am not too proud to ask my friends and any visitor for a definitive answer to my problem and I am sure that you can help.

You know in the cutlery draw that there is a little tray, and the tray has one small section at the bottom, obviously for tea spoons and butter knifes, I think that we would all agree on that.

Above this small section there are three larger sections, and , hopefully, we will agree that these are for knives, forks and dessert spoons.

Now the question is, From left to right in what order should these items be?

I truly believe that it should be knives, forks, spoons, but, my Lady Friend is adamant that the order should be forks, knives and spoons.

To complicate the matter, my wife always insisted on spoons, forks and knives, and as she had them that way, they remain that way.

As I am a helpful sort of fella I volunteer to empty the dish washer for my L F but mix up the cutlery when returning it to the little tray, mainly because I do it without paying much attention as I know where the things should be, but, the Lady, opens the draw without looking, reaches for the item she requires without looking, and comes out with the wrong item.

Somewhere in this great computer world the answer must exist, but where is it? and, What is it?